The Minister in-charge of New Life Congregation, Abeka, Rev. Dr Daniel Osei Bediako-Akoto has issued a heartfelt apology following public backlash over a short video in which he made comments about oral sex during a teaching session on love and intimacy on Valentine’s Day this year. The video clip, which circulated widely on social media, sparked concern among church members and the wider Christian community.
Speaking in a Special Interview on PCG TV with the Public Relations Officer of the church, Mr. Jerome Otchere, Rev. Dr Osei Bediako-Akoto acknowledged the hurt he might have caused.
“Let me use this opportunity to offer a sincere apology to everyone who was hurt by the short video circulating online. I am fully aware that many people were affected — some were deeply disturbed, others were disappointed, and even family members, friends, and loved ones felt the impact. I am truly, genuinely sorry,” he said.
He clarified that the viral clip was not part of his prepared presentation but a response to a question posed during the session. According to him, the absence of the question in the circulated video created misunderstanding. “Unfortunately, the video circulating does not include the question, and the way the clip was edited makes it easy to misunderstand. When I listened to it myself, I understood why people were hurt,” he explained.
Rev. Dr Osei Bediako-Akoto noted that the issues he addressed were not new to his ministry, stating that he has taught on such matters since 2017. However, he admitted that when sensitive topics are taken out of context, especially coming from a Presbyterian minister, they can easily offend. He stated that the broader presentation dealt with real issues affecting marriages and relationships and contained eye‑opening teachings.
He also conceded that some of the language used may have been too strong for a church setting. “When I listened back, I realised that the way I mentioned certain terms was indeed too direct. I understand why people were disturbed, and I appreciate the concerns raised,” he said.
Rev. Dr Osei Bediako-Akoto added that the experience has taught him the importance of choosing language that is appropriate for the audience, even when addressing difficult but necessary topics. “There are gentler, more acceptable ways of communicating the same truths without causing unnecessary discomfort,” he noted.
